I began asking myself the other day, “what does a humble person look like?” When do I know that I’ve humbled myself before God? James commands in his letter to, “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.” (James 4:10). Peter and Paul echo the importance of humbleness, humility, meekness and gentleness many times over.

Humbleness comes in many forms. It’s the quiet grandfather that is patient; leaning on years of experience. It’s the trusting daughter that waits for her loving father, knowing he will be there because he’s never failed her before. It’s the homeless beggar who has no idea where his next meal will come from or how to get out of his situation. It’s the convicted criminal who has fought the “system” for so long but with lowered eyes and a willing heart realizes that his selfish behavior always leads to a destructive end.

Humility is expensive. It can cost quite a bit. A humble spirit can cost: status, positions, prominence, friendships, success, financial gain, reputations, words, physical disabilities, mental health, or freedom. Humbleness can take dignity, self-esteem and security. It can demand personal preferences, personal rights and privileges, dependency on others and vulnerability, not to mention: embarrassment, fatigue, depression and anger. Humbleness usually follows highly painful and stressful circumstances.

Yet, the Bible makes it clear that this is a virtue that God desires in us. I’m not sure I want that virtue… until I see that being humble before God has great results. Daniel was heard by God because of his humbleness (Daniel 10:12). Moses was considered the most humble man and God, on multiple occasions, defended Moses in amazing ways (Numbers 12). Jesus humbled himself more than anyone else, to the point of dying as a criminal; yet he was lifted to the highest position. Clearly a humble heart is the first step of allowing God to take control of our lives, transforming us into a completely intentional work of art for HIS purpose. I think that’s why, as we grow in maturity towards Christ, we become more eager to become like him. We rid ourselves of self-pride and gladly welcome the higher position of humbleness to the point of eager anticipation. “The brother in humble circumstances ought to take pride in his high position.” Humbleness draws us closer to God.